I added the heat trap and flap valve to the return from the house:
The additional resistance is evident from the sound/load of the circulation pump. When the pump is in 2nd speed I can hear the flap (with additional weight) bobbing up and down.
Tonight I left the pump off for the whole night to see whether heat is still escaping, and unfortnately it is - supply plumbing was warm to hot (30-40C next ot the pump, basement temp is <10C)
So the dual heat traps + weighted flaps add resistance when the pump is on, but do not hinder the loss of heat when it is off.
So much for keeping this system passive.